Ghanaian actress, Xandy Kamel, has revealed how her critics and naysayers on social media have negatively affected her life and relationships.
The thespian who lately received separated from her husband, made this revelation in an interview on UTV present.
She claimed that the derogatory feedback trolls depart underneath her posts on social media have scared all the lads in her life away.
She stated although she doesn’t know the identification of those that insult her on social media, most of her potential suitors instantly lose curiosity in her after seeing the brutal feedback and curses hurled at her.
In different information, a Lady has got herself and her husband trending on social media after she shared some private details of how she met her husband a virgin.
In keeping with the girl, when the indicators grew to become evident that she’s going to get married to him, she fasted and prayed to God that he erases the recollections of each man she’d been with earlier than him.
Sharing the picture, she wrote ;
When hubby and I received critical about courtship, I fasted and prayed, and requested God to erase any ties to and recollections of the lads I had been with earlier than my husband. I used to be not coming to our marriage mattress with no prior exercise. I wasn’t coming to it ashamed or condemned both as a result of I used to be made clear in Christ, nevertheless I needed to have the ability to come to my marriage mattress with dignity; and for our expertise collectively to be distinctive to us. He was a virgin and I used to be not, however I didn’t need that to be a hindrance to our sexual relationship.
Folks overlook that “the wedding mattress is undefiled” additionally means each companions haven’t any sexual ties together with recollections to another individual previous AND current. So I prayed, and consecrated MYSELF. I’m grateful that God erased all the pieces. Not a single recollection. I needed to don’t have anything and no person to match him to. A part of the explanation marriages get into bother is when {couples} aren’t sexually glad resulting from measuring their partner in opposition to earlier companions. Comparability is actually the thief of all pleasure. Together with the enjoyment of coming collectively as one. No pun meant. 😅
Right here’s the deal: SEX IS LEARNED BEHAVIOR. Meaning you must be taught your partner and you’ll by no means actually try this dwelling the recollections of earlier companions earlier than your partner.
For those who’re wanting marriage and also you have been intimate with somebody who wasn’t your partner, pray concerning the recollections and particulars of that have(s) to be eliminated out of your coronary heart and spirit.